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“So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be.” ― Stephen Chbosky
We must not expect happiness. It is not something we deserve. When life goes well, it is a sudden gift; it cannot last forever.

4.16.2010

President Obama with Emilio, Gloria and Emily Estefan



Introduction to President Obama
By Gloria Estefan

Welcome everyone to our home! Emilio, Emily and I are very happy that you’re here and we hope you very much enjoy this afternoon!

When our parents brought us to the United States as children they never imagined that the country that had opened its arms to them at a time of crisis would eventually become their country and in turn, our country. They came here to raise us in freedom and democracy so that we could thrive and learn. And that we did. We learned how to listen to and respect different ways of thinking, different nationalities, and different political ideologies.
We learned, as we watched our parents give up their homeland, their families, their history and in the case of my father who served proudly in the United States military, his life so that we could live the American Dream.

My father, a refugee from a country that is still in the stranglehold of the same oppressive government from which he rescued his family, my father, who when leaving for war said to my mother not knowing if he would ever see us again, that in a man’s life there has to be “something” that is worth fighting and dying for and for him that cause was freedom! My father, who would have been very proud to know that his little girl, years later, would be hosting in her very own home, the President of the United States, a President who just 21 days before publicly stated, “Today, I join my voice with brave individuals across Cuba and a growing chorus around the world in calling for an end to the repression, for the immediate, unconditional release of all political prisoners in Cuba and for respect for the basic rights of the Cuban people.”, the President that is the very first African-American in history to attain this most honorable office!

Each person believes that they are living in the “best of times” and in the “worst of times”. We look around at the difficulties and challenges that our world is experiencing and we wonder (I know I do) if history has taught us “anything”. We question if there is indeed “something” still worth fighting and dying for.

Then I look at the country where I was born, a place where hope and freedom are a part of their history, not their everyday lives and I see Orlando Zapata Tamayo, a Cuban dissident and now MARTYR who gave his life on a hunger strike for the promise of a free Cuba and Guillermo Fariñas who is poised to give his life at any moment merely asking that his government free 26 other sick and dying prisoners of conscience. I see the bravery of the Damas De Blanco; women who walk peacefully, silently, heroically, yet still get beaten and arrested for simply petitioning for the freedom of their unjustly imprisoned loved ones.
I look at this magnificent country that has molded me and is now my homeland and I hear a choir of voices expressing their wishes, their desires, their demands and even their disdain for our government, freely and without consequence and I smile and quietly thank God that despite whatever problems we may be facing, we truly are a free people!

The beauty of this amazing nation is that anything is possible! Even hosting a very political evening to get the “ear” of my President when I am politically non-affiliated but the Reverend Martin Luther King Jr. put it succinctly when he said “We may have all come on different ships but we’re in the same boat now!”

And regardless of where we may have come from, what color we may be, what political party we may or may not belong to I think there are definitely two things that we can all agree on; the first is that we all love this country and the second was beautifully put into words by Dr. Lawrence J. Peter, an American educator and writer, when he said,

“Democracy is a process by which the people are free to choose the man who will get the blame.” And it is my distinct honor to introduce him! Ladies and gentlemen, from one hyphenated American, I present to you, another hyphenated American, The President of the United States, Barack Obama!!

4.13.2010

Shit Happens - A universal religious concept

Taoism: Shit Happens.

Hinduism: This shit happened before.

Islam: If shit happens, take hostages.

Buddhism: If shit happens is it really shit?

Protestantism: Shit happens if you work hard.

Catholicism: Shit Happens, I deserve it.

7th Day Adventist: Shit happens on Saturday.

Mormonism: Knock Knock, Shit Happens.

Judaism: Why does shit happen to me?

Krishnaism: Shit happens, ring a dingy ding.

Jehovah's Witness:People now living will see shit happen.

Paganism: Each shit has its own name.

Atheism: Bullshit!

TV Evangelism: Send more shit.

Rastafarianism: Let's smoke this shit.

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4.07.2010

If I could reeeeeach..Higheeeer...


Alcuni sogni ci accompagnano per tutta la vita
sono quei sogni che vogliamo realizzare ad ogni costo.
Lotterò senza darmi tregua
per adempiere alla promessa che ho fatto;
sarò pronto a prodigarmi senza riserve
ed infine ciò che ho sognato sarà mio.
Se mi potessi spingere più in alto
e per un attimo toccare il cielo
da quel momento e per tutta la vita
sarò davvero molto più forte
certo di avere fatto tutto il mio meglio.
Metterò alla prova l’animo mio
per potermi spingere più in alto.
Alcuni giorni sono proprio indimenticabili
sono quei giorni in cui ci innalziamo fino alle stelle.
Questa volta andrò oltre ogni limite
rendendomi conto mentre ascendo la china
che più credo nel mio sogno
più quel sogno diventerà realtà.

Reach (italian translation)
Destiny
Gloria Estefan

4.06.2010

Disney's Desperate Housewives



Fiori d'Acciao



Fiori d'acciaio (Steel Magnolias) è un film del 1989 diretto da Herbert Ross.

A Chinquapin, una cittadina della Louisiana, in un salone di bellezza si incontrano in varie occasioni la signora M'Lynn Eatenton, la figlia di lei Shelby (che sta per sposarsi con l'amato Jackson Latcherie), l'anziana e litigiosa Ousier Boudreaux (che di mariti ne ha avuti due e ora adora la propria libertà), Clairee Belcker (bizzarra, ma sempre ottimista e gaia), nonché la parrucchiera di tutto il gruppo (la spregiudicata Truvy Jones) che alle sue dipendenze ha assunto una giovane occhialuta Annelle Dupuy Desoto, recentemente abbandonata dal marito e rimasta senza denaro. Sul matrimonio di Shelby si addensano le preoccupazioni di sua madre perché Shelby vuole un figlio, malgrado sia gravemente affetta da diabete. Dopo la nascita di un bambino vispo e sano, poiché si impone un trapianto di rene per Shelby la signora Eatenton fa ben volentieri da donatrice alla figlia la quale, malgrado il soddisfacente esito chirurgico, dopo alcuni mesi muore. Nel dolore e nello sconvolgimento generale, le amiche sono tutte vicine alla madre disperata, che si pone infiniti "perché". Ma quelle donne sono davvero di acciaio e, malgrado differenze di carattere e spigolosità varie, sanno che la natura ha le proprie leggi e che la vita deve pur continuare. Della morte di Shelby restano intatti rimpianto e memoria. M'Lynn Eatenton si occupa con tutto l'amore possibile del biondo nipotino; la parrucchiera riceve in dono dal marito (per una volta fortunato nel proprio lavoro) un magnifico salone di bellezza, l'anziana Ouiser ritrova un vecchio ammiratore tornato nella cittadina e sempre a lei fedele; Annelle, sposatasi nel frattempo con un bravo ragazzo (Sammy), darà alla luce un bambino.


Il titolo originale Steel Magnolias fa riferimento ad un affettuoso modo di chiamare le forti donne del sud. La magnolia è un albero molto diffuso in Louisiana, Alabama, Mississippi e altri stati meridionali.